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Chip's New Year's Revelation

January 2, 2017


Jo and I sometimes don’t see eye to eye on stuff. She looks at something one way and in her gut she thinks she’s right and I look at it an entirely different way. I wish that she could get with the program and just see things the way that I do. (Of course, I’m kidding – we all know Jo’s usually right.) If Joanna and I, who are best friends, don’t see lots of things the same way – how on earth do we expect a world of strangers to magically align? The reality is, we may not all get on the same page and I think that’s okay.

This past year has been tough. In my lifetime, I can’t recall humanity being more divided. Plenty of folks are sad and scared and angry and there are sound bites being fed to us that seem fueled by judgement, fear and even hatred. Jo and I refuse to be baited into using our influence in a way that will further harm an already hurting world, this is our home. A house divided cannot stand.

If there is any hope for all of us to move forward, to heal and to grow – we have got to learn to engage people who are different from us with dignity and with love. Joanna and I have personal convictions. One of them is this: we care about you for the simple fact that you are a person, our neighbor on planet earth. It’s not about what color your skin is, how much money you have in the bank, your political affiliation, sexual orientation, gender, nationality or faith. That’s all fascinating, but it cannot add or take away from the reality that we’re already pulling for you. We are not about to get in the nasty business of throwing stones at each other, don’t ask us to cause we won’t play that way.

In 2017: We have decided to change the conversation.  

You wanna talk about how to build bridges between people that disagree? We want to be a part of that conversation. Do you want to talk about healing and compassion and kindness and restoration? We’re in the restoration business, we can for sure make time for that.  

I think we are all here for a reason. I think we all have a call on our lives. Your role is not my role, and thank goodness, because there is so much unique and important work to be done. Jo and I feel called to be bridge builders. We want to help initiate conversations between people that don’t think alike. Listen to me, we do not all have to agree with each other. Disagreement is not the same thing as hate, don’t believe that lie.

Also, let’s cut each other a little slack. This living out loud thing is not for the faint of heart. Jo and I don’t want to hide, we want to live brave & bold lives and we wish that same thing for you as well. But words can cut deep and having someone misunderstand your intentions can hurt as much as just about anything. If I misjudge people and am wrong, I want to be wrong having assumed the best about them. The bottom line is, I would rather be loving than be right.

Our family wants to fight for a world that knows how to lovingly disagree. We believe it starts when we operate from a position of love in all things. If your position only extends love to the people who agree with you, we want to respectfully challenge that position. We propose operating with a love so real and true that you are willing to roll up your sleeves and work alongside the very people that are most unlike you. Fear dissolves in close proximity. Our stereotypes and vain imaginations fall away when we labor side by side. This is how a house gets unified.

Think about it for a minute:  This could be one of the greatest restoration stories of all time.  

Who’s ready to get to work?

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  • Jordan
    4:23 am, May 24, 2017
    Actually disagreeing that LGBT people should have fundamental human rights and protections is hate.
  • Ariel- Lion of God
    12:20 pm, May 19, 2017
    Debra, Christians (the saved; aka those who follow Him) are going to Heaven. God does not love reprobate children of the devil. You should know this since you have read revelation where God's wrath will fall on the unsaved. And the unsaved are flesh human beings and they are going to get tossed into Hell for their sins unless they turn to God. You and every other so called christian trying to preach love the person hate the sin are wrong. Not even Jesus preached that.
    • Nat from Australia
      8:14 pm, May 20, 2017
      Zaccheaus for one ..........
    • Sandra
      3:56 pm, May 23, 2017
      Ariel,

      It is clear that you have a point of view concerning this. However, I encourage you to read through the Bible with an open heart to see what it holds. God does not hate sinners.

      Romans 5:8 - But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

      This scripture confirms that statement. Another is John 3:16 -

      "For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten son that whosoever believes in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life."

      These two scriptures tell us that God loved us while we were still sinners. He calls us to show that same love to others, whether they're saved or not. I'll leave you with this scripture - Mark 12:31-

      "The second is this: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' There is no commandment greater than these."

      Be blessed Ariel.
  • Joannie Juarbe
    3:42 pm, May 18, 2017
    Love this. Totally agree that 'we do not all have to agree with each other. Disagreement is not the same thing as hate, don’t believe that lie.' And I also would rather 'be loving that be right.'

    Love your show & love your authenticity. Be blessed.
  • Jan Hertel
    10:32 am, May 18, 2017
    Well said Chip. Keep up the good work!
  • Margie Flores
    5:09 pm, May 14, 2017
    Love this and love you guys!
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